What have you done today to make your life better?
I was cleaning out my Outlook Box and came across a lovely posting about my site I hadn’t seen before. It’s been a long time now since I did anything with ’shyguys’ and so it came as a pleasant surprise that guys were still finding the site and enjoying it. People are still reading my Ezine articles too, which is great. Always pleased to hear I’ve helped my favourite type of male move a little closer to getting the woman of his dreams.
So, knowing thereare still guys out there who are reading my postings I thought I’d write another. This one comes from the heart, as I am living this myself in a big way!
It’s very easy to get down-hearted about Life. The more sensitive you are, the easier it is. Sometimes you look around at the world and everyone else but you seems to be successful and happy. Othertimes, you look around and you’re overwelmed by what a mess people’s lives seem to be. Both, strangely enough, make you feel more despondant.
What’s the answer? Putting into practise what you have learned, every day. Not just when you feel like it. Every day!
Take one of my ideas from the secrets that are up on the site, (I can’t find the rest. They’ve disappeared into the void that is my computer’s filing system), or in my Ezine articles, and put it into practise. Keep a log of what you do and the results. Sort of like a science experiment.
For instance, go join a class or group that you know women will attend. Write it down as your activity for that day. Go out and people watch for an hour and record what behaviours seem to work for men. That’s another day’s activity. Or more than one day, if you seem to be picking up some good tips.
Join an on-line dating site and send out complimentary emails to women who attract your attention. I get some really nice emails from guys on the site I’m on. I also gets some terrible ones too. Hint: Its not enough to just say hello, or send out a blanket email and hope someone replies. You have to make an effort with each and every email.
Look at the lady and see what appeals to you about her. Then email her and just tell her what attracted you. (No, I don’t mean -you’ve got great tits! Be nice!) She may answer or she may not, but if you’ve paid someone a compliment that day, log it in your book.
You never know when Miss Right might get your compliment and reply. And you never know what down-hearted lady will be picked up a little by your comment (like I am with the comments on this Blog when I get them).
Making someone feel good makes you feel good!
Keep at it! Do something every day to move your Life toward the goals you have set. No exceptions. If something isn’t working, try something else. Ask for advice from your girl-friends. Keep at it!
This is what I have to do everyday to move my life forward. This is what everyone has to do to move their life forward! Even the megarich and famous people.
So, what have you done today to make your life(or someone else’s) better? You’ll be amazed how much more otpimistic you’ll feel if you just DO something positive!