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The Joys of Endless Computing!

This is a whinge session, so don’t read it if you want to maintain the belief that I am some pontificating guru who has no life outside this site.

The fact is, it feels like I have no life outside this site. My body is just not used to the hours I spent bent over this keyboard. This week my neck went into spasm, a nerve got trapped. I had to get my massage therapist to let it loose again. It’s still not perfect. I wonder what I’m being stiff necked about. Could it be this site?

Now my fingers are starting to seize up. RSI?

And for what? A dream! A dream that I can help make life better for men who would rather stay hidden in the shadows than come out and be found by eager women.

A dream that I could create a place that offered men better advice than what men could offer about women.

A dream that people would actually pay me for my help ( as they do in the real world).

A lot of dreams. A lot of pain. And nothing to show for it.

But I’ll push through the Dip for a little longer. But sooner or later I’m going to have to admit defeat. You can’t help people if they don’t WANT your help. That’s a lesson I’ve had to learn the hard way many times before.

If there is anyone out there reading my posts, could you please leave a comment. Just a hey, I’m reading your Blogs. It would help my flagging spirits a great deal.

x cara

3 Comments so far

  1. ar May 16th, 2009 6:38 am

    I think you’ve created a great site & set of products - no doubt you’ll get more interest.

    But - having to register before posting a comment on your blog is a pain.

  2. cara May 16th, 2009 7:32 am

    Thanks for the feedback.Sorry about the hurdles to commenting but all I get is Spam if I don’t ask for registration. Feel happy you’ve made my day by making the effort to register! :)
    x cara

  3. Arthur June 18th, 2009 12:30 pm

    I really appreciate what you are doing giving us hope like you are. I really feel good reading what you have to say as opposed to what some other guys have to say about the subject. I was planning on responding later, to really jump in and I still will; I just need to get my thoughts organized about it. Thanks so much for all of what you do and I look forward to future communication.

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